Everything is blooming! That is great and not so great….
I mentioned several days ago that I was excited about being able to plant my flowers. The weather has been absolutely beautiful! So , I proceeded to plant and plant and plant.
Now this little guy and I have a lot in common.

I sound just like him. I have laryngitis. I have squeaked and squealed and croaked for the past 3 days.
Today, while visiting with one of my friends, I told her…in my frog voice…about this sign I had seen.

I like to talk….but I have also been learning through the years that there really are times when we need to hush.
This week I have had to be a little more quiet, I didn’t have much of a choice.
I need to exercise this more. Not just when— I CAN’T TALK.
I remember listening to a radio show years ago. The speaker said, about the time you figure out your children’s personality and how to relate to them, they are grown, and it is time to hush. Your job is done, and now it is time for them to learn things on their own, unless they ask you.
Wow, that hurts. I try to do that. But I am not very successful. I mean goodness, I have learned so many things, I want to spare them the heartache of making a bad decision. Sounds logical to me.
I remember when we were first married and I was adapting to married life. I would get so mad sometimes and I would spout off ….I know hard to imagine little ole me doing that….but I would. I would just tell God all about it. I would tell him that Billy was wrong…or he needed to apologize or whatever the case was. I remember in the stillness of my heart…it was like God was telling me….”You need to pray it…not say it”.
OUCH! So, I tried to put that into practice. I found that sometimes Billy would come back and apologize. I also found that sometimes God would show me without a doubt that I was wrong. Often, I had to apologize. That was and is hard.
My father in law used to tell his children. Put your mind in motion before you put your mouth in gear.
I suppose if we truly thought about things before we said them…we might not say as much. I know that is true for me.
Billy and I took a road trip yesterday. We went to visit my Mother in laws sister, Millie. She is sick and so we drove to see her with my in-laws. I saw many similar mannerisms. But I also saw a quality they both share, they are soft spoken and kind. They are truly interested in others and are not consumed with themselves.
Probably because I couldn’t interrupt with all my talking, I got to hear stories I had never heard before. Stories of days gone by. Precious memories of loved ones in a different time in history.

I saw this at the farm the other day. It was so peaceful and calm I just had to take a picture….

Then immediately some little something, made this ripple.
I thought, our words are like this….they often start with something small and they just keep on going.
If they are good and encouraging words they can spread out and do good. If they are bad or mean words, they also spread out causing harm.
I know I sure enjoy seeing a ripple of good come from my words rather than a ripple of bad. Saying something that make people smile and encourages rather than making someone mad or discouraging them.
Now, just because I am writing about this does not mean I have mastered this. Matter of fact, I am the one who gleans more from my “blog thinking” than anyone else.
I get tickled watching God work like that. Kind of like when I said I wanted to spare my kids the heartache of making bad decisions. God has given me the things I need to know in His word. Now it is up to me to put them into practice. That is the hard part.
I have really enjoyed this blog. One reason I started it was so that I could use up my words! But I try to think about what I say before I just put words out there in “blogville”. I believe God is teaching me the very things I shared today. Sometimes I am a very SLOW learner.
I find that I often reflect on things my mom said…funny how the older I got…the wiser she became.
I also am still learning from my mother in law. She is slow to anger and she puts into practice this verse—-Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger.
In this day of technology I sometimes am amazed at all the words we all use while texting, tweeting, using facebook, and yes, blogging.
I remember telling my kids when they were old enough to drive, with freedom, comes great responsibility.
I hope I will remember my own words as I blog.
Proverbs 15: 2 The wise person makes learning a joy; fools spout only foolishness.
3 The LORD is watching everywhere, keeping his eye on both the evil and the good.
4 Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.
5 Only a fool despises a parent’s discipline; whoever learns from correction is wise.