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Little Tug…..

I am writing this story with great hesitation.  It is actually embarrassing.

Why?  You might be asking yourself………

Because we are feeding TUG……..

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I know…..another animal that we are having to bottle feed.  Sometimes I think that our critters just know that we will…..so they have them….and leave the feeding up to us.

The whole labor and delivery was very different with this heifer.  This is her first calf.  Maybe you remember that she had it almost three weeks ago.  When I found her in labor she was with all the other cows….which is unusual.  Normally a cow will go off to herself to have her baby.  Later she rejoins the group….sometimes with the baby..but usually she will hide the baby in the woods or high grass.  She returns to feed it throughout the day.  That usually goes on for about two weeks or so.  The baby then starts to join the mama in the field laying down while the other adults graze.  The baby will get up ever so often to move with the herd then lay back down.  They are like newborns and nap a good bit for the first month or two.

Back to the delivery story…the cows stayed with this Mama…Bailey….the whole time.  Once delivered the Mama licked him a couple of times….but oddly enough some of the other cows came over and started licking him.  Mama’s lick the babies to clean them… This also stimulates them to stand up.   Tug took a little while to stand.  Mama didn’t want to get up either….Billy and I pushed and pulled….but it was the encouragement and pushing of another cow that actually got her to stand.  Once on her feet she walked away.  She wouldn’t come back and feed her baby.  That is not good, because the baby has to have the colostrum within so many hours after delivery or it will die.  By night fall she had not fed the baby…..it was weak and could hardly stand.  We got Bailey and tug into an enclosed fenced area so she would more or less have to feed him.  Besides, we had a lot of rain headed our way and this would be the best spot for them.  Apparently delivery had been stressful and long for both of them.  Our neighbor said that sometimes if they have been stressed the Mama might act  weird like this for a little while.  Especially a first time Mama.  So we just watched and waited.

Bailey still wouldn’t let the baby nurse.  He was able to get a swig here and there…but she would kick him off.  The next morning when we checked in on them we saw her bag was so full she was dripping milk….but she would not let him nurse.  This went on for another couple days.  He was  just getting a swallow here and there.  Mama was wanting out of the fence….oddly the other cows would come up to the fence and moo at her.  Not all of them at once, but one every so often.  I don’t know what they were saying…but it was different.  It was a different kind of mooing that was going on.  I promise you it was if they were scolding her.

Billy and I finally decided to just let her out into the field.  Keeping her contained was not giving us the results we had hoped for.  She still was not being the kind of mother she needed to be to this baby.  Sometimes new mothers just need to learn….but it was obvious….she doesn’t want to take care of this baby.

I opened the gate and she bellowed a big moo and took off to meet the other cows in the next field.  Baby went too, but he slowly walked away…not knowing what to do.  He found a section of brush to lay under.  Bailey greeted the other cows, but  they were not very happy to see her.  They all started pushing her around.  Especially the black cows.  They head butted her a couple of times.  That is not normal for our girls.  They pushed and shoved for a little while….and then they kind of shunned her.  She eventually walked off by herself.  The other cows went up to the baby and all started licking him.  He was hungry of course and tried to nurse on each and every one of them, except for Punkin who is already nursing the other baby Rey.  I was totally amazed at how patient they were.  He even checked out the donkey. Throughout the day I saw that she still was not going to feed him and the only cow that has milk right now…wasn’t going to share.  After much deliberation…..Billy and I eventually decided that it looked like we better feed him.

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I know….we even discussed it with some other farm people here and they said that they would feed him too if he was theirs.  Sometimes…just like with humans….you get one that just doesn’t want to be a Mama.  I think that is extremely sad.

Still, when he is in the field with the others….he goes up to them and tries to nurse.  Later, I give him a bottle when they aren’t paying attention.  I hope they think they are satisfying him.   Brandy is Tug’s grandmother, she will be delivering soon herself.  It is my hope that she will let him nurse with her new baby when she delivers.

Meanwhile, we are soaking up the sweet affection of this baby.  It is rare….and although I hope he will be taken in and fed by one of the others…..I am enjoying this rare opportunity.

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He is really friendly and enjoys being  petted.  I try not to baby him too much…but every once in a while I have to love on him.

At least I hope this will be a rare opportunity…….we really want them all to be raised by their Mama’s.

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He is precious….precious.

 

Sweet Violet

A few years ago my brother, Tommy, called and asked if we wanted to give 4 goats a home.  His neighbor had to move back to the city and couldn’t take the goats with him.  I talked with Billy about it and it didn’t take long to decide.

Tommy did let us know that the daddy goat was tied up at the moment, due to eating the other neighbors flowers.  We weren’t sure what we were getting ourselves into but thought maybe they could clean up the woods at the farm.  Besides, we had plenty of room for them to wander around and hopefully they wouldn’t get into any more trouble.

Since we were new to all this farming stuff, my brother said he would help us transport them to our land.  Sure enough when we arrived to pick them up….poor Bubba was tied up and looked pitiful.  But I have learned that they have a way of looking and sounding pitiful even when they are fine.  Tommy and Billy loaded them all up.  I was a little leery of those horns they were all sporting.  I remember seeing on television how goats always ram you when you aren’t looking.  I didn’t want that happening.  I like all the animals to just be nice.  I know you have to respect animals and their instincts…because they are just that….animals.  But I don’t want to be afraid of any animal that we have on the farm.

We all arrived in one piece and turned them loose in our pasture.

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They were so cute.   They looked so happy, this is one of my favorite pictures of the whole family.

Starting from the left is….Bubba the daddy, Violet….the Mama, Jed…the son and Pearl…the daughter.  We didn’t know the age of the animals…except my sister in law, Lisa, thought the kids were about 3 or 4 months old at this time.

They checked us out as much as we did them.  I suppose they too wondered what we would be like.  They quickly warmed up to us. The cows in the pasture seemed to be fine with the new additions as well.

Bubba did get aggressive as he aged, he seemed to be more so toward men.  He took a co-worker to the ground, it took all he could do to get up and get away before the horns got him.  I saw it and talked to Billy that night about it.  We decided to watch him and see how he acted in the days to come.  However, the very next day he did it to Billy.  He brought him to the ground.  Thankfully a neighbor and I both were in the fence and were able to help get the goat away long enough for Billy to get back on his feet.  Needless to say….Bubba had to go.  He was extremely strong and when he stood up on his back legs he was as tall as a man.  I’m sure he was protecting his little woman…but we didn’t want anyone else to get hurt.  So….the next morning Bubba left the farm.  It was sad because we loved him….but it was what we had to do.

Violet was already expecting and before too long.. we had a baby….Jethro.

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She was a great Mama….letting us hold him whenever we wanted.

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This was just a little while after he was born.

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He was our first baby goat….and we were both smitten.

Jethro grew…..and stayed close to Mama.

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Big brother Jed, took time with him.

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They stayed at the farm, but the pasture often gets too wet for their hooves.  They prefer rocks and we needed to clean some other areas….so we fenced in a place near the house for them.

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Once they arrived they checked it all out….Violet was leading the way.

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Jethro wasted no time getting started…..

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Jed seemed content…and there was certainly plenty of brush for all of them.

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They fit right into their surroundings.

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Once they walked around….they went back to the gate.

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They were atuned to every new sight…..

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and sound….

Whenever we would go for a walk….they would come to the gate….anxious to see us.

Violet was always making us smile with the silly faces …..

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and expressions she would make…..

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She continued to be a good mother and before long she was a grandmother.  She was a protector of all of them….I suppose that is what most Moms and grandmothers do when they need to.  One day we couldn’t find her with the herd.  Billy walked through the whole fenced area and finally found her sitting down in the brush.  She had been attacked by a predator, and her ears were shredded and bleeding.  She was shivering.  She apparently was worn out from the fight,  she couldn’t even stand.  Quickly, we gathered some things to doctor her with and made sure she had food and water.  She was so weak it was pitiful to watch.  Little by little we were able to get her to stand a few minutes at a time.  She would move a short distance and then sit back down.  A day or so later she was able to get up and walk a good distance…back toward the house.  Her ears healed….but they were forever scarred.  She indeed was a strong goat.

Here is a good picture of how pretty and long they were before the attack.

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She didn’t have striking features like some goats….but she had a beautiful long neck, pretty eyes and was very gentle.  Now if food was involved…  then she wanted to be first and didn’t like to wait.  But that is true with most any animal.

Last Spring we moved Jed back to the farm and bought May to be his new wife.  We also purchased Freddy to be the new Male for this herd.

Recently Violet started bagging up and seemed to be doing well with this pregnancy.

We could tell that it was getting time for her to deliver.  She was moving around like a Mama that was ready.  Billy entered the fence to feed them Saturday morning, while I was watching from the window.  I noticed that she fell on her way to the trough.  It looked as if she just slipped on one of the flat rocks.  She quickly got up and kept heading for the trough.  Billy was ahead of them so he didn’t see her fall.  She ate and seemed to be alright so we went on about the day.  I happened to notice about an later that she was back at that same spot…laying on her side.  Hoot-n-Nanny, her granddaughter, was softly nudging her face…like she was saying…get up…get up.

I ran out the door and through the gate.  I was afraid she was dead.  She was alert and I helped her sit up.  I called Billy, when he got there we tried to get her to stand up.  We couldn’t find anything hurt on her.  But all she wanted to do was sit.  I figured that labor was probably going to be happening soon, especially after this fall.   Looking back,  I’m not sure if she slipped on that rock or if she was weak or something.

We  kept encouraging her to stand and lift her up several times…. but she wasn’t trying to help much.   We continued to massage her legs and feel for any injuries, but couldn’t find anything, and she made no noise as if she was in pain.

Continually checking on her, we kept thinking… alright then…she is just ready to have those babies.  She let me just sit with her some throughout the day…resting her little face on my leg, letting me pet her.  She seemed fine…just tired.  You could see all kinds of movement from the babies.  They were kicking her pretty good….probably trying to get comfortable since she was sitting.

Evening rolled around and we assumed she would deliver sometime during the night.  Early Sunday morning we headed out the door and sure enough we had a birthing bubble.  That is the tale tell sign that delivery is soon.  I wasn’t real sure the babies would even be alive, since she hadn’t moved around much.  Finally I felt one move slightly.  Billy and I gathered all the necessary towels and things….just in case she needed help.  Before long there appeared two beautiful white feet.  I took hold of them and when she pushed I tried to help….only when that baby moved her little legs out of my hand did I realize that it was indeed alive.  That is an incredible experience.  I moved and Billy worked with her on the delivery part.  Violet tried but didn’t have much energy to push hard.  Things did progress pretty quickly though.  I cleared the airway for the baby and gave her to Violet to lick.  The next baby came right away without too much trouble.  Once again we gave the baby to Violet.

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She tended to them…..like normal.

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within about 10 minutes they were all cleaned up and fluffy.

Violet however, never even tried to get up.  Which isn’t good…and isn’t normal.

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They tried to nurse…but couldn’t.  Often newborns have to have a little time to find things…but she was in a position that wasn’t helping.

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Billy and I knew we had to get her up.

We put our heads together….to form a plan.   He went to gather some supplies….meanwhile….she gave each baby some one on one time.

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When I took this picture I kept thinking….she looks like she is smiling.

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Same thing here….her head in both pictures is as if she is hugging them.

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They all nodded off for a few minutes…

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Billy rigged a device where we could lift her up and let her rest in a sling type device.  This  allowed her to still be able to reach the ground with her feet.  I pointed the babies to the feed bags and tried to get them to nurse.  It is vitally important for newborns to get their mother’s colostrum in their system quickly or they won’t make it.

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Needless to say there are no pictures of her in the thing.  We were too busy just trying to make it all happen.  She wasn’t overly excited about it, but tolerated it for a few minutes.  She was eager to get out of it as soon as possible.  The babies didn’t move quick enough…so I milked her some and got what they needed in a bottle.

That night I gave them another bottle, when we checked on everyone just before bedtime.  Violet still wouldn’t get up on her own, she had developed a bad cough.  We gave her some medicine, but were very concerned.

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Billy woke up during the night and checked on her…she was still sitting up.  I got up a little later and checked on her….she was still sitting up.  I hoped by morning she would surprise us and be standing.  Unfortunately, when we got up for the day, she was laying on her side.  Afraid I already knew what I was going to find…I went inside the gate.  She looked as if she was just asleep…..very peaceful…but she had indeed passed away.  I was afraid the babies might have died too….but they were fine, still cuddled up next to her.

It is just sickening when things like this happen.

We have replayed the day over and over.  What if we had done this…or maybe we shouldn’t have done that…..it just make you sick.

Billy buried her on the land.  I took the babies and fed them.  They seem to be very healthy and are already eating almost as much as Lucy.

It had been beautiful weather all weekend…but Monday a cold front moved in.  The babies are being kept comfortable near a wood heater…. in the sun room.  Lots of milk is being warmed..along with Lucy’s bottle.  We had just successfully moved Lucy inside the fence.  I was secretly hoping that when the new ones arrived Violet would allow Lucy to join them in their family.

I suppose they will still all hang out together….just under different circumstances.

The rest of the herd seems lost without Violet, especially Jethro.

Since we have to feed the babies ,we have been able to experience their personalities.  The white one looks like Violet and seems to be calm like her.  We are going to call her Viola in honor of her Mother.  The other one looks just like her father.  She doesn’t want to be held as much…and Freddy, her father, stands off.  She is much more feisty than Viola.  We are going to call her Freida after her father.

It is all bittersweet.  We are enjoying the babies…but we have a lot of sadness…for the loss of their Mama.

For now….We keep reflecting on the love and trust she showed us from day one…..

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The kindness she showed

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her sweet disposition….

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and the love she so freely gave to us through the years.

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We already miss her very much.

VIOLET AND HER BABIES

We were blessed with two more baby goats early Sunday Morning.

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We felt like Violet was getting ready to deliver on Saturday.  Sunday Morning we couldn’t wait to check on her, and we found her in the early stages of Labor.

About an hour later Billy helped deliver a baby girl…  He is getting really good at this delivering thing.

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We normally try to put the Mama goats in a good place to have their young…..but that is not how it ended up this time.  She delivered in the back yard by their little house.

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It was a little girl….we cleared her little nose and mouth and gave her to Mama.  She immediately started cleaning her.

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Daddy came over to check on Mama and look at his new baby girl.

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Meanwhile, Billy was helping deliver the second baby girl.

Jethro just had to came over and take a peak at his new sisters.

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Within a few minutes….this one was standing.

Only to do a face plant a minute later….but that didn’t deter her…she just kept getting right back up.

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The white baby just wanted to snuggle with her Mama for a few minutes.   She crawled up into this position on her own.

It looks like Violet is smiling right here.  I think it is such a sweet picture of both of them.

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They sure love their Mama….

 

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So funny how the white one looks just like Violet….and the red one looks just like her father…Freddy.

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Eskimo kisses with Mama…..

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Jethro….and Freddy…came to pay a visit and sit with Violet.

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Hoot-n-Nanny watched from a near by rock….while chewing some cud.  Pearl was around…but she didn’t check it out much….she should be our next one to deliver.  Maybe she just wasn’t ready for all that just yet.

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Lucy was all excited that their is somebody more her size around.

We put straw down in their area and everyone settled in….including…Lucy.

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Then they all took a little nap.

Whew….what a day…..for all of us!

 

Making Progress…..

Thought I would update everybody on the goats.

May did deliver her afterbirth later Sunday evening….and is apparently nursing the baby boy.  Mom seems to be recovering very well, pretty amazing after delivering 4 babies.

At our house…..Billy and I have been taking turns getting up with the little one.  She is precious.

When Billy comes in at the end of the day….he always wants to know if she is ready to eat.  I think he really likes that time with her.

Seems they both  enjoy taking a cat nap after a really long day…..

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Here she is 2 days old….and still pretty weak.

It is amazing the difference in her and her brother.  Here her brother is 3 days old.

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You can see how much stronger he is.  He even jumps around a good bit.

May is taking good care of him.  When I pick him up…. he feels like a puppy with a fat belly.  He is probably 4 pounds or so…..It is my guess that baby girl probably weighs 2 pounds at the most.

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Monday when we started taking care of his baby sister she couldn’t stand.  Her little legs were just floppy.  Billy and I wandered if she would ever be able to walk. We were encouraged to see her continuing to at least try to stand….so we would help her just a little by balancing her.  She is gradually standing more and more on her own.

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We tell her what a good girl she is when we see her standing.

Yesterday morning….bright and early… Billy and I decided to take baby girl over to her mother and try to get some milk from her.  We figure it has to be better for her than any formula.  I laid the baby girl down and backed away.  May, made her way over to sniff and lick her a bit.  I was glad to see that she showed her some interest.  Although she wouldn’t relax enough to nurse her.  Baby girl still has to be warmed because she is so small so I couldn’t let her stay out in the wind for long.  But Billy and I was able to hold May long enough for me to get about 1 ounce of milk from her.  I had brought the bottle with me, so I instantly fed the baby while the milk was warm from the mother.  She gobbled it up….when we returned home, she took 2 more ounces of formula.

It was cute to see her brother come over and sniff  his sister.  She in turn showed interest in him as well.

We haven’t named either one yet.  Somehow that just hasn’t been top on the list this week.  Although we have been running a few names by each other.  I guess we will settle on one soon.  Meanwhile they are just baby girl and baby boy.

It is our hope that we can get baby girl strong enough to go over and visit with Mom and brother each day….and eventually have her be able to stay.  Of course the best scenario would be for her mother to start nursing her….but if she doesn’t…I suppose we can still let them stay together and feed her with a bottle at the farm.

This was last night….at dinner time.  She was practicing her standing skills.

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She is definitely stronger.

She doesn’t seem to mind the taste of the formula.

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Just a day or so ago she was only taking an ounce at a time….but now she takes 2 to 3 ounces.  So we are seeing progress.

Billy was funny last night when he said…..do you think she will sleep through the night.  We aren’t to that point yet…but she has only been getting us up once during the night….so that isn’t too bad.  Billy has actually gotten up with her the last 2 nights….although I hear her…and always ask if she ate good….I am able to go right back to sleep.  It sure has been nice!

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We are really glad she is getting better….but we have a long way to go.

Somehow….I do think she is alright with her care givers.  She sure seems content.

The Baby Goats are here…..

You might remember that we had a goat named May that was expecting.  I thought that she was going to have them a long time ago….but I didn’t know her official due date.  She just kept getting bigger…and bigger….and bigger.   Until she was big as a barrel.   Saturday….Billy and I said surely she can’t get any bigger, she has to be close.

She finally delivered in the early morning hours this Sunday.  She had four babies.  2 girls and 2 boys.  One of the girls was still born.  I hate to see that happen.

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The other three seemed to be doing fine.

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I couldn’t believe how cute they were.

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Layla and Poo-pa checked in on them and gave them a little love.

They also decided to name the little girl goat that was still born Angelina.  They buried her while I checked on Mama goat…May.  The babies seemed in pretty good shape, but it didn’t seem like the mama was giving them much attention.  She was still trying to pass her afterbirth.  I think she was too preoccupied with that to care.  We watched them throughout the afternoon, but never saw them nurse.  Billy got a rope and as Layla said….Poop-pa Lassoed her.  He did a very good job at it too.  He’s looking more and more like a real cowboy these days.  May has always been very skittish.  We bought her back in May…hence her name.  And she never has let us touch her.  She is getting to where she will get closer to us….but just not too close.  Billy gently lassoed her and then petted her while I milked her.  The babies must have the colostrum from the mother within hours or they will die.  Not knowing if she had nursed earlier or not….we felt we had to try to help.

She produced about 3 1/2 ounces for me.  We gathered the babies up in a crate and took them to the house.  It was a cold day although it was warm if you were in the sun.  I felt like they needed a little warmth and some warm food in their bellies to give them a good chance at survival.

It took a while….but I was finally able to get them all fed.  We made the tough decision of returning them to their mother for the night.  They were much stronger now and would be able to climb toward their mother if she would lay near them.  She was laying down resting and eagerly greeted them when we brought them back to her.

Billy and I couldn’t help but worry about them…..

Yesterday morning bright and early….Billy checked on them.  Everyone was fine….whew…what a relief.

A little after nine, I checked on them….things weren’t fine.

The black and white goat who was the biggest of them all had died.  He was laying beside the runt of the litter, who is the other little girl.  The mother and the other baby boy were on one side of the hay bales and these two were on the other side.  The runt seemed alright so I placed her near her mother and brother and quickly grabbed the black one up and tried to revive him.  I cuddled him up in a soft towel and held him close to me inside my jacket and brought him to the house.  I warmed his body with the warm air from the blow dryer…all  while giving him breaths of air and massaging his little chest.  But it was just too late.

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This is a picture we took on Sunday afternoon…he was a cute little thing.

After working with him I decided I had better go back and check on the baby girl (runt) that had been laying beside him.

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(This is the baby girl…. runt…picture taken on Sunday)

By this time about 20 minutes had passed by.  She looked very weak.  Apparently Mama wasn’t letting them nurse.

The baby boy goat that had been laying next to her must have been the only one she was taking care of.  He was very strong and was wiggling his tail….which is a good sign.

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(This is the boy…picture taken on Sunday)

I gathered the runt up and once again wrapped her up in a towel and put her inside my jacket.  I didn’t have time to try to get colostrum from the mother so I headed to the feed store with the baby.  I was able to buy some.  She was so weak she could barely hold her head up.  She wouldn’t even try to take the bottle.  I squirted a tiny bit in her mouth and hoped it would ease down her throat.  Little by little I was able to get some in her.  Back at home I arranged a bed for her complete with a heating pad under a pad of towels.  She laid so still it was pitiful.  Every once in a while she would cry out…..sounding like a little baby.

Through the afternoon I pampered her, loved her, held her and fed her.  She slowly started sitting up and seemed to be gaining strength.

Finally by suppertime….she started taking the bottle.

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She ate real well.

Soooooo…..Last night I went to bed with a box on the floor beside me…complete with a baby goat.   I woke up sometime during the night and just had to laugh.  The next time I woke up it was to the cry of that baby wanting a 1:30 feeding.

I know……What do you do?  I couldn’t let her just die.  So even as I type this blog she has given the I’m hungry cry.

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I just took this picture while holding her….she is much stronger today.

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Thankfully, I was able to also buy some goat milk supplement .  She is supposed to graduate to drinking that today.

Meanwhile….we wait for the bottle to warm!

Thinking about Mary…..

I went to a baby shower this weekend for our daughter Holly.  She is due in February.    Her body shape is showing that the time is drawing closer.  Hard to believe…. seems like she just shared the ultra sound picture with us the other day.   Amazing how early they can tell if it will be a girl or a boy.  You couldn’t really even tell she was expecting.  Now she is experiencing all the normal pregnancy issues, tiredness and trouble getting comfortable.

Everyone is different and every expectant mother will experience some things the same and some things differently.  But most mothers can recall many things that they went through….even many years after child birth.  I found it to be the most wonderful miracle I have ever been able to be a part of.  Amazing how you can fall in love with that little person…before you even lay eyes on them.  Before you have a personality to put with them.

With the Christmas season, I couldn’t help but think about Mary, the mother of Jesus.  I suppose too…. just coming back from a mission trip… made me think about possibly similar conditions in which she might have lived.  No running water, no electricity… she would have experienced those things for sure.  Many people even today all across the world still experience those conditions.

We gathered together Saturday with great excitement over our new little fellow that will be joining us soon.  There were gifts of cute clothes, towels and blankets just waiting for his arrival.  We had blue punch, cupcakes with blue icing, and lots of finger foods as family shared in the celebration.

I wonder if Mary had a baby shower?  Did her Mom, Aunts, cousins and nieces gather together for a celebration of Jesus’ arrival?

Did she have someone make her some cute little boy clothes…or a handmade baby blanket?   We don’t know for sure…scriptures do not say…and where scripture is silent we need not add words.  It does make one think though.  There are some things that scripture does tell us.  When Mary was first told that she would carry Jesus…she was told about her relative Elizabeth.  Elizabeth had not been able to have any children.  The angel informed Mary that Elizabeth was expecting.  Mary went to see Elizabeth and found that she was six months along with John (the Baptist) just as the angel had said.  Scripture tells that when Elizabeth was greeted by Mary…..John the Baptist gave a leap for joy inside her womb!   How exciting!!!

The circumstances of an angel coming to a virgin girl and declaring her to be the chosen one to carry the Christ Child was probably not celebrated outwardly from the village people.  Maybe there were many days when Mary felt excluded or slighted by her friends and possibly even family members.  Not to mention Joseph.  Scripture tells us that Joseph wasn’t too sure about all of this news either.  Then it goes on to tell us that an angel of the Lord came to Joseph in a dream.  The angel explained the details and told him that it was alright to take Mary as his wife, then he understood.  Still….there were probably whispers and smirks that both had to endure.

Holly is entering the last stages of her pregnancy…they are already preparing to stay home and have a quiet Christmas.  No traveling…the doctor would rather her not.  Now…I think about Mary…she had to travel by animal or foot no less…right at the time of her due date.  WOW.  I cannot imagine how she must have felt.

One of the things I vividly remember about my pregnancy was how swollen my feet would get.  I was a cosmetologist and stood up all day on concrete floors, I continued to work up to a week after my due date.  At the end of the day I would go home and elevate my feet on pillows, trying to get the swelling to subside.  It wasn’t terrible…it just wasn’t comfortable.  The very thought of having to walk miles and miles or ride on an animals back for hours upon hours is just mind boggling to me.  Mary must have been a very strong woman….physically.  She must have also been very strong emotionally.  She had left her home…and her family.  That meant that she would have this baby….her first child on top of that….without the moral support of her family being by her side.  Yes, she had Joseph…..and I can only imagine that he must have been really nervous.  No cell phones…to call a doctor…or her Mom for advice or just to hear some words of comfort from someone with experience.  She must have been a very strong woman Spiritually too.  She had trusted the Lord thus far, surely she felt the presence of the Lord with her at that very difficult time.

An Angel appeared to some shepherds tending some sheep…..we know that they believed what they were told…because they hurried to the stable.  They found baby Jesus lying in the manger.

However, we really don’t know who was there to help Mary or Joseph with the delivery…the very moment he drew his first breath.  Possibly it was just the two of them….experiencing this miracle that they were told would come to pass.  They knew even without the technology of an ultrasound ….that they would be having a son.

I remember the moment I had my son…instantly the pain was gone….and the sound of his cry was the most wonderful sound I had ever heard.  I couldn’t wait to see the face of this one that I had been carrying inside.  Like most mothers, I thought my baby was the most beautiful baby I had ever seen, from head to toe.

I wouldn’t be at all surprised if Mary immediately smiled and anxiously awaited a peek at Jesus as soon as she heard his cry too.  It must have been a very special moment for her and Joseph as they thought about all that had transpired over the past few months.  And all that was still to come.

Most mothers think their babies are perfect….the difference with Him was that  He truly was perfect…..He was God’s One and only Son.

Have you ever noticed when mothers all gather together to talk, they often share special memories about their children.

Perhaps that is why this Scripture verse is one of my very favorites……………Luke 2:19 …But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.

In a lot of ways she was a normal mother…but in other ways she was not.  She was chosen by God to be the mother of Jesus  Obviously a very special person to have been entrusted with God’s only Son.  Mary and Joseph were blessed…. for they were chosen to be the earthly parents of Jesus Christ.  What a huge responsibility.

God gave the world the most perfect gift ever given.  Given not only to Mary and Joseph…but to all of mankind.

But….as with any gift given to us… we first have to accept it.

My Mom

This is my mother when she was just a little girl.  Isn’t she a cutie.

She couldn’t wait to grow up, get married and become a Mother.

She dated a good bit…but she just couldn’t find Mr. Right.  UNTIL….she met…. HIM.

They both fell in love and within months they were married.   What a good looking couple.

They both wanted lots of children.

God gave them four.  This is where I come into the story!

Tommy, Charlotte, Sonya (me) and Debbie.

They were only married seven years when my daddy passed away, so Mom raised us by herself.  She did a great job and I know that my Dad would be so proud of her.

I forgot that all this digital stuff really became popular after she died.  I have a few scanned pictures, but I need to learn how to post them differently.

Meanwhile…I can tell you about her.

She loved God and she showed us how important He was in her life.

I tell you that first, because that is what molded and shaped her into the person I knew and loved.

She told us that after going through hard times, like losing  daddy, you either get bitter or better.

She chose to let God bring out the best in her through the situation.  She ran to God…not away from Him.  Trusting Him through the good times and the bad.

My mama had beautiful blue eyes, and velvety soft skin.

She taught us girls to be feminine, she dressed pretty and liked to wear high heels.  We grew up loving that too.  When I was a little girl I loved the way she would blot her lipstick with a tissue.  Often she would kiss my cheek and leave a lipstick kiss.   She was pretty and her perfume smelled good.

As a child she often woke us up for school with the song -“Rise and Shine, give God the Glory, Glory” .  It still echoes in my head and makes me smile. ( A sprinkle of water was next if you didn’t rise and shine!)

She loved to celebrate our birthday’s, it was our special day.  We didn’t have elaborate parties, but we had friends and neighbors over for homemade cake and Ice cream.

She read us bedtime stories, prayed with us, and tucked us in bed.

She gave us a million kisses and hugs and told us she loved us so many times I couldn’t even count them.  And she meant it… each and every time.

I have fond memories of home cooked meals, that began with prayer, thanking God for providing for us and allowing us to gather together as a family.  There was lots of laughter and conversation at the dinner table.  It was a time for us to share our day.   She was interested in the things that interested us.

She made sure we all did our homework and worked with us if we needed help.

Mom had three dishwashers, me and my two sisters.   We had a lot of fun working in the kitchen with her.  She taught us how to cook and clean.  We learned how to sort, wash, dry, fold and put clothes away.  We all helped with cutting the grass, edging the lawn and trimming the shrubs.  We swept the driveway and sidewalks and took out the trash, although that was mainly Tommy’s job.  We didn’t always like the chores at the time, but we were a family.  We worked together as a family.  It taught us responsibility.

She was a people person, she enjoyed having company. Growing up, our house was the house that everyone wanted to come to.  All our friends loved our mama.  Besides that she made the best sweet tea in the world.

She was talented and creative.  She made  pajamas, clothes, curtains, table cloths, embroidered pillow cases, crocheted purses and afghans!  Just to name a few.  If she wanted a room painted…she painted it.  Since we helped, we learned how to do it too.

She taught us how to change a tire on the car and check the oil.

She taught us manners and expected us to use them.

She took us to church as a family, and taught us God’s Word in our home.

She stayed up at night, preparing things for the next day.

She rose early, fixed breakfast, packed school lunch boxes and got us to school on time.

She was patient and kind with us.  But she also expected us to obey and disciplined us when we didn’t.

She spanked me when she thought I needed it, but not near as much as I deserved!

She took care of me when I was sick, kissed my boo boos, and wiped many tears from my eyes.

She showed us love and respect.

She couldn’t and wouldn’t go to sleep until we were all in for the night.

I could talk to her about anything…well almost…

As a teenager I remember sitting on the edge of her bed when I would get home.  We would laugh and talk about things that most people would find boring.

She encouraged me when I failed and walked with me through difficult times.  She mentored me and helped me become a better person.  When she didn’t approve, she corrected me, but loved me as I found my way.

She had a tender heart.  If we were happy, she was happy for us.  If one of us hurt….she hurt.

We were happy when she was happy and when she hurt….we hurt.

We all grew up, healthy and happy!

One by one we moved out.

It was hard leaving her in that house all by herself.  The home she and daddy had hoped to retire in.  She had devoted her whole life to us, guiding us, training us.  Giving us an awesome childhood.

It was hard for her too.  But she continued to show us where she got her strength, by relying on God to help her make the transitions.

I had the first grandchild.

Garrett was the only one for 10 years.  Needless to say…they were very close.  She thought he hung the moon!

Then my sisters started having children.

Mother loved each and every one of them dearly.  Showing each of them the same kind of love.  She kept the pictures they drew for her.  She saved their sweet voices on the answering machine.  She spent time with them and kissed them every chance she got.

She always looked forward to getting together.

The beach was a special place for her.   This was the last time we were all there together.  I am so glad we were able to spend that time with her.

I treasure this picture!

I couldn’t have asked for a better childhood.  Sure we had hard times and heartaches, every family does.

But we had more good times….than bad ones.

I’m not sure that we fully realize the impact our parents have on us until we are grown.

I miss her everyday, especially on Mothers Day.

As I reflect on her though, I smile, because I have so much to be thankful for.

I DO love my Mama!

Welcome to the Farm…..

Yesterday Morning Billy and I went to check on Mama and Baby.

They were still in the enclosed area we provided for her to give birth.  Zsa-Zsa has always been one to stand back.  Actually, I find that to be the norm….usually it changes after they see how much you care about them.  They still come up to you when they want….but they are much friendlier after events like these happen.

When we entered the confined area…we weren’t sure if the mother was going to be defensive of the baby or not.  She gave us a deep stare…and a nod of her head, which for her, usually means…back off. I went out of the gate to give her some space.  Billy was right behind me.  But she gave a little hum to the baby after she did that…..the baby walked away from her and up to us.  The first time that has ever happened.  Mom stayed where she was….and baby walked about 10 feet over to us and rubbed up on Billy’s leg.

Well…there you go….heart melt down!  I was already on the other side of the gate….but I immediately got back in that fence.  I didn’t want to miss that special moment for anything.  That baby savored every minute.  We did too!

Mama gave her another hum…Mom proceeded through the open gate and went across to the third pasture clearing.  She must have told the baby to stay with that hum….because she stayed right there at the open gate.

That is when we continued to take advantage of this golden opportunity….it showed a lot of trust on Zsa-Zsa’s part.

Amazing creatures.

With camera’s these days it has the date and time when you take the pictures.  As I was going through them I realized  the Mama went into the field and left the baby with us for about 15 minutes.  That was unusual, sweet and very trusting.  Of course time flew while we were loving on it.

When we looked into the field we saw her running back toward us….and the herd was behind her ….running.  As she got close she hummed…the baby came out.  Then there was a welcoming party.  She proudly showed off her baby to the herd.

I find that totally amazing.

What a proud mother!  I am so happy for her.

In the far left corner you can see Brandy touching noses with Zsa-Zsa.   Possibly congratulating her.  Bailey is the one standing by the baby.  She is the last of the small cows that I am concerned with.  She hasn’t bagged up…yet.  So I am not sure when she will deliver.

Then I thought this was sweet….Punkin…who had Toots just a month ago….and was the one who head hugged Zsa-Zsa during labor…greets the new baby.  SWEET…SWEET.

After that the herd then went about the business of grazing.

AHHHHHHH.  A great way to start the day!

After work….I took Mama a sweet feed treat and did my routine check.

I found them nestled in the field, away from the herd.  Which is typical for a little while.

Mama ate, I loved on Joy.  This baby is much more willing to be loved on.   I can only hope that she will always be like that.

Experience tells me otherwise.  I usually have about 3 days.

Meanwhile, I enjoy every chance I get.

Zsa-Zsa is a great first time mother.

AHHHHHHH.  What a way to end the day!

Thank the Lord for the beautiful gift of Life.